Sep 25

An inconvenient conscience in the cosmetics aisle

Comments (9) by Kim Bongiorno September 25, 2012 - 6:02 AM

Many (many) years ago, I was a bright-eyed, tie-dye-wearing idealist who discovered that there was a major cosmetics company that did terrible things to animals to test its products.

The group that informed me of this, named something along the lines of EARTH IS SO RAD! or HUG A WHALE, was one of the many at school I belonged to back in 8th Grade. The group leader held up dittos of hidden camera pictures that captured sad bunnies and other small woodland creatures that didn't volunteer for the job to test eyeliners, lotions, and shampoos.

I was infuriated! How dare they hurt the bunnies?! I was the kind of kid who was quick to judge who was good and who was bad, then stuck to it. I was too busy being passionate about my causes to consider any grey areas, so I put my foot down in front of my fellow tree-hugging students and swore I will never ever buy a product from this company again!

How was I supposed to know that they eventually would become an innovator of fabulous mascaras, plumping long-lasting lipsticks and skincare that could rock my (aging) world?

Over the years I have seen TV commercial after print ad after billboard, only to discover that the products I coveted were made by the brand I swore never to give my money to. And it's been killing me. I've wanted so badly to shrug off my conscience and say, "You wore John Lennon eyeglasses back then. Clearly not all your decisions were wise ones."

Yet . . . I simply can't do it.

I can't turn my back on the girl I once was. I learned to let go of the judginess. I learned to embrace the grey areas. But that stubborn thirteen-year-old who was disgusted at anyone who wronged another of Earth's creatures is still inside me.

Young hippie me was one well-meaning tough cookie, and deserves my respect.

Sure, she had the glowing skin of an angel and gravity was her BFF when she made that decision, but this wrinkled, saggy woman still has to live with herself, and so I skip that one forbidden section in the cosmetics aisle of my local Target. 

That company may promise to turn back time, but even if it could make me be the prettiest woman in the room today, I'm still not willing to let down the girl I was back then.

Even if she dressed in unflattering oversized t-shirts while making terribly inconvenient proclamations I'd have to uphold for the rest of my life.

by Kim Bongiorno September 25, 2012 - 6:02 AM

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  • Report Sun Sep 30, 2012 - 4:13 pm
    by  oof23
    Oh, I feel your pain. Be strong.
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  • Report Tue Sep 25, 2012 - 11:56 pm
    by  lhewitt
    Awww man, now I am going to have to do more research.
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  • 1 reply, Last reply by Kim at Let Me Start By Saying on Wed Sep 26, 2012 at 4:31 pm
  • Report Wed Sep 26, 2012 - 4:31 pm
    @lhewitt: Sorry, I know...I ruined it for all of you!
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  • Report Tue Sep 25, 2012 - 10:39 pm
    I am in the same boat as you. I just stopped using one of my favorite product lines because they started testing on animals due to some new regulations from China. Saggy skin is always a preferred choice to hurting animals in my book. Great post.
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  • 1 reply, Last reply by Kim at Let Me Start By Saying on Wed Sep 26, 2012 at 4:30 pm
  • Report Wed Sep 26, 2012 - 4:30 pm
    @Happy Little Feet: Thanks, Happy Little Feet. I know it's good, I really do. But sometimes my ideals can make aging a little more inconvenient. ;)
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  • Report Tue Sep 25, 2012 - 7:08 pm
    Good for you!
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  • 1 reply, Last reply by Kim at Let Me Start By Saying on Tue Sep 25, 2012 at 7:32 pm
  • Report Tue Sep 25, 2012 - 7:32 pm
    @Janie Emaus: I may weep each time a revolutionary new product is released, but Gosh Darn It at least I'm sticking to my really gentle guns.
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  • Report Tue Sep 25, 2012 - 5:13 pm
    by  Abby
    Ha. Agreed. Being a vegan, I get a lot of crap about the fact that I don't (knowingly) eat or use any animal products. I do my research, but I'm not fanatical and understand I can't be perfect. However, my own comfort and/or ego aren't more important to me than the animals that would have to suffer as a result. I realize people roll their (perfectly mascara-ed eyes) at this, but it's a personal decision. I say to each their own and never preach, but I'm a hippie at heart. ;) You go, girl. You are fabulous inside and out.
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  • 1 reply, Last reply by Kim at Let Me Start By Saying on Tue Sep 25, 2012 at 6:15 pm
  • Report Tue Sep 25, 2012 - 6:15 pm
    @Abby: I have had a few instances when people have either tried to give me a leather coat, or persuade me to buy one. I mean, the PERFECT, most flattering leather coats ever. Yet, once I put them on, I feel completely skeeved out. It's just a part of me I can't help.
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